I was once where you are now.
I was happily married to my college sweetheart for 20 years, and then we had some issues we couldn't resolve.
I became unhappy for several reasons.
I wasn't sure what to do, and I felt "stuck" in a limbo state of indecision. I was not sure I wanted to stay in the relationship, but also not certain I wanted to leave.
I remember the sleepless nights feeling lost and alone. I stayed "stuck' for years.
It was so painful to recognize the choice wasn’t going to be made for me. I'd have to decide for myself. I knew that I didn't have all the information I needed, and I wasn't clear about where to get it.
I knew there had to be a better way to resolve conflict than what we were doing in our relationship.
The old ways weren’t working: marriage counseling didn’t help enough. Much later the attorneys in our divorce were only making things more difficult between us.
Through my own experience, and also through the help I was able to offer my own individual and couples clients as a therapist, mediator and attorney, I realized I needed to find a way to make calm and confident decisions for my future.
That is why I created my book on Compassionate Mediation® and the Compassionate Mediation® Program.
It is a process I wish had been available to my husband and me when we first developed problems in our relationship.
Perhaps we could have found a way to create a new and better relationship together — as many of my clients have be able to do.
We could have:
• Practiced better communication, instead of building walls around our hearts and judging and blaming each other.
• Felt more compassion for each other, instead of being reactive and defensive.
• Been more connected during our separation to allow for a better relationship, more effective co-parenting, and a possibility of creating a new marriage together.
• Stopped the court dates and the fighting as we communicated with respect to work out the details of our marital dissolution.
• Enjoyed our children and grandchildren without letting the pain and mutual regrets of the past cloud our ability to relate as friends.
For the last 30 years, I have helped thousands of individuals and couples to add passion to their marriage or compassion to their divorce.
I’d love to help you.
I can't wait to support you on your journey to a better relationship - whatever form it takes.
You can begin to:
• Communicate with honesty, respect and kindness.
• Have the courage and confidence to ask for what you want and need.
• Model a healthy relationship for your children.
• Set appropriate boundaries.
• Take better care of yourself.
• Become informed about your options for change.
• Understand your finances - and your rights and responsibilities.
• Feel energized, supported and peaceful.
• Add passion to your marriage (or compassion to your divorce.)
I want to help you move forward with peace and confidence:
• If you're happy and hopeful, you can create more passion, connection, and fun.
• If you're unhappy and stuck, you will be able to move forward with positive momentum, and you don't have to just ruminate or stay in a state of limbo.
• If you're separated, I want to help you feel peaceful and strong in order to make informed decisions, to give you peace of mind.
• If you're in the middle of a divorce, you certainly need more peace and strength, as I know from experience, and from helping my clients. Divorce is one of life's major stressors, and my heart goes out to you. I'm here to support you in any way I can.
• If you're divorced, I want you to know you can still have a better relationship with your ex-partner, no matter what your ex-partner chooses to do. It's all about how you show up, what you think, and how you choose to relate moving forward.
Here's What You Will Receive:
* Video training to begin to make positive changes today. (My clients pay up to $400 an hour for this information.)
*Transcript of the Online Training to refer to whenever you need reminders. (So no need to take notes!)
*PDF of my award-winning book: Compassionate Mediation®: How to Add Passion to Your Marriage or Compassion to Your Divorce. (Available on Amazon for $10)
BONUS: "What You Need to Know If You're Thinking about Divorce" Audio and E-book. (Legal, financial, emotional information and guided meditation - value priceless!)
I guarantee this course is going to expand your sense of what's possible in your relationship.
I know you'll learn at least one idea that will help you make positive changes today!
If, after watching the training and reading the book, you feel that you have not received the value you desired, please send me an email and I will refund your money with no questions asked.
When you order the OnlineTraining, you will also receive a PDF of my award-winning book.
"Linda Kroll is a master at lifting couples out of their narrow and protective perspectives.
They then learn the larger lessons from their relationships and proceed based on the best interests of all involved....
This is relationship healing at its best."
Richard Schwartz, PhD. Founder of Internal Family Systems (IFS).
Some of the 5 Star Reviews on Amazon:
***** Pick this up if you are having marriage or relationship troubles. Linda draws on legal, psychological and spiritual sources which may be new or familiar to readers. And so, she sets the stage for her method of approaching this life crisis with respect and compassion for all involved. In the core of the book, Linda explains her steps to crafting a peaceful, constructive, and healing process of either reconciliation or divorce and how to navigate the consequences of either decision.
*****This book is a breath of fresh air in the business of mediation and divorce. Finally something worth reading. Gave me practical tools for bringing higher consciousness, mindfulness, SELF-leadership, and loving-kindness to relationship healing.
***** This is a must read for anyone who wants to get meaningful insight and tools to move forward feeling relief, peace of mind and joy. Transformative.
***** This book is a blessing. It is a refreshing approach not only to those considering or going through divorce but to all relationships and especially the relationship you have with yourself. Thank you Linda for this beautiful gift. You are changing lives and I believe in the long run changing the world's outlook about divorce.
***** A new book for couples struggling to make their relationships move from surviving to thriving is Compassionate Mediation For Relationships at a Crossroad, by Linda Kroll, therapist, mediator and attorney.
***** Using this book as a guide you are directed to turn inward towards yourself and get to know your needs and how to have a compassionate inner dialogue first. Then you are shown how to step back to meeting your partner in ways that speak for your needs calmly with connection to your self and your partner. From this book you will learn ways to connect with your qualities of calm compassion and be more Self-led in your choices......With diminished stress and conflict more meaningful and compassion conversations will co create a future where you both thrive.
***** Compassion is the key ingredient in all relationships! Linda Kroll gets right down to business with a guide that will inspire and encourage healing and wholeness in your marriage.
My Clients Share:
"I’ve experienced significant improvements in my relationship with my husband and children."
“When you’re stuck or unhappy in your closest relationships, it’s easy to lose faith in yourself and in life. Linda helped me to regain that trust. Even though my family was unwilling to participate in the process, Linda taught me new ways to approach old patterns…I’ve experienced significant improvements in my relationship with my husband and children. I was enduring a contentious marriage and now both of us have reached a place of reconciliation. For me, this is the key: Linda guides you to re-frame your story with compassion for yourself AND all your significant relationships, even the most difficult and hurtful. Thank you with all my heart, Linda!”
“We’re building an entirely new marriage.”
"I resisted leaving for years with two young kids and limited finances, the idea of leaving felt almost as bad as staying. By the end of our first session, we were able to strip away some of the old resentments and junk to have a glimpse of the person we fell in love with all those years ago. After a few short months, we are no longer thinking of ending our marriage. Linda is helping us build an entirely new marriage. She is a Godsend and is helping me to love myself, love my husband, and love my life. What a treasure.”
“With Linda’s caring guidance, I moved forward with peace and strength.”
“When I was first referred to Linda, I felt sad, scared, alone and extremely confused. With Linda’s caring guidance, I learned ways to cope with what was happening with my life and how to move forward with peace and strength. She showed me options I didn’t know existed. This helped me feel so much more in control of my actions and decisions and allowed me to be a strong role model for my children. Life is so much better…I now face each day with excitement, strength, and peace.”
“Linda guided us mindfully through the impact of divorce."
"My (former) husband and I owned a business together and worked together every day. We wanted to dissolve our marriage but not lose our company in the process. Linda helped us sort out the dysfunctional parts of the relationship from the parts of our relationship that still worked and we wanted to retain, allowing us to continue to work together, successfully, for years. She helped us separate from each other in a mutually respectable way so that I could move past my anger and disappointment in the failed relationship. She also helped us stay focused on what was really important: our 3 year old child, making him the center of most of our decisions, asking ourselves what was best for him as we wrote our joint parenting agreement. When our son attended a group for kids of divorced parents at his school, they thought he was fantasizing when he told the counselor his parents worked together every day. Not only was Linda able to guide and advise us mindfully through the psychological and physical impact of divorce, but also the legal aspects, helping us as she wrote our divorce decree to suit our needs.”
"I learned there could be a Compassionate Divorce."
"I imagine that working with me and my spouse was quite challenging as we both brought a lot with us while dealing with intense life issues. Once the difficult decisions were further along, there was space to let concepts into my mind and heart of empathy and compassion. Linda always seemed to maintain an ability to stay above the fray, and she taught me how to come from my Highest Self. I feel that I understood the meaning of Highest Self immediately, yet before being introduced to that concept by Linda, I don’t think that I operated from that place often enough. I am now am working toward living my best life, from my Highest Self, looking for good things for myself, my newly structured family, and for the greater good in my business and personal life."
Please join me and order your online training to
Create the Relationship You Desire and Deserve
and get your PDF of my book: Compassionate Mediation®: How to Add Passion to Your Marriage, or Compassion to Your Divorce.
and let the healing begin!
You get ALL THIS at no risk to you!
* Video training to begin to make positive changes today. (My clients pay up to $400 an hour for this information.)
*Transcript of the Online Training to refer to whenver you need reminders.
*PDF of my award-winning book: Compassionate Mediation®: How to Add Passion to Your Marriage or Compassion to Your Divorce. (Available on Amazon for $10)
BONUS: "What You Need to Know If You're Thinking about Divorce" Audio and Ebook. (Legal, financial, emotional information AND guided meditation - value priceless!)
For a limited time — instead of paying hundreds of dollars, Your Investment is only $49 today! Say "yes" to yourself and sign up now!